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My name is Brandon Flanery, and I’m so glad you’re here!

I write about honest, messy things, specifically relating to the intersection of faith and sexuality.

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Where I dabble…

The blog…


What do we do with the memories of Christianity and church that were good? What do we do with the moments that we encountered the Divine? Was it all nothing? Was it all deceit?

News and updates

This post is a bit different than usual. That’s because there’s some exciting news I want to make you aware of and also give you a heads up with some changes to the site.

Decision making in the wake of deconstruction

How do we make choices when decision making was outsourced in evangelicalism?

In the wake of deconstruction, we must newly wrestle with the question “How do I want to live?” The question can be debilitating, but I think we can find answers in the most horrific of places: The Holocaust.

I’m Grateful for Trump

I’m grateful for Trump…
Not for the nationalism… Not for the anti-trans policies… Not for calling white supremacists “good people. Not for any of that…
I’m grateful for Trump because he was a catalyst for my straight friends to deconstruct their faith.


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