Hi hi!

My name is Brandon Flanery, and I’m so glad you’re here!

I write about honest, messy things, specifically relating to the intersection of faith and sexuality, and I got a book coming out this year.


A Sassy Memoir about Coming out of

Where I dabble…

Some of my recent writings…

What if it’s we?

To preface, I wrote this post ages ago, but it never felt right. In fact, it still doesn’t feel perfect. But with the recent news in the Gaza, I was reminded of this post I wrote and wanted to share. Before reading, I don’t claim to have the answer for what’s happening over there. I think it’s more complicated than…

Independence is a scam

As a nation, we adore independence. But at what cost, especially when our species wasn’t built for it?

Your child is safer at a Pride event than at a church

The data shows that churches and pastors are a bigger risk to children than drag queens and Pride events. So why all the rhetoric around why queer people being threats to children? One answer: queerphobia.

What if God is carnal?

In Christian texts, the idea of “the body of Christ” is often used as a cliche, rather than an actual practice. But what does it look like to embody and behold the Divine within?


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