Hi hi!

My name is Brandon Flanery, and I’m so glad you’re here!

I write about honest, messy things, specifically relating to the intersection of faith and sexuality.

Happy stumbling!

Book coming May 2023!

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Where I dabble…

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I’m moving to Atlanta

I moving to Atlanta. To understand why, I made this post. In short, it’s to move and breathe and dare to befriend my heart again.

How does one deconstruct — Your handy dandy deconstruction map

Whether you’re in the middle of deconstructing Christianity or thinking about it, the whole experience can be a bit disorienting. To help, I’ve created a space map to hopefully help you feel not as alone and help orient you as you decide what’s next in your own personal journey. Save travels!

Pain Revisited

In the wake of Colorado Springs’s Club Q shooting, I’m reminded of the power of pain.


What do we do with the memories of Christianity and church that were good? What do we do with the moments that we encountered the Divine? Was it all nothing? Was it all deceit?


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